Interactive Kink Jar

A Kink Jar, sometimes called a “jar of kinks”, is a visual way to map your interests. Each of the 20 jars stands for one practice or dynamic, such as bondage, praise, or aftercare. You choose how full each jar is, from empty to 100%, or seal it with a hard limit. It is a conversation starter, not a test: there are no scores, types, or diagnoses.

Tap a jar at the height you want the liquid to reach, or press the 0, 25, 50, 75, or 100 button under it. Tap the same spot on the jar again to empty it. Press the red ban button to mark a hard limit. Empty is a perfectly good answer for anything you are unsure about.

25% means curious, 50% means interested under the right conditions, 75% means you really enjoy it, and 100% means it is a top desire. They describe interest, not skill, experience, or willingness to do something right now.

A hard limit is something that is off the table. It is not a “no for now” and it is not open to persuasion or negotiation. In the partner view, hard limits are shown clearly so nobody has to ask twice.

Your jars are saved only in this browser’s local storage, and the image is created on your device. We never upload your levels or limits. We do count anonymous events such as “image saved” to see which features people use. Anyone who can open this browser profile can see your jars, so use Reset on a shared device.

The button creates a private link that carries your levels in the part of the address after the #, which browsers never send to a server. Your partner opens it, fills in their own jars, and the page highlights shared interests and any hard limits. The data is removed from their address bar once the page has loaded. Treat the link like a private message: anyone who has it can read your levels.

No. A filled jar shows interest, curiosity, or enthusiasm. It never means consent to any activity. Consent has to be specific to the people, the activity, and the moment, and anyone can change their mind at any time.

Yes. Save image creates a 1080 × 1350 (4:5) PNG poster on your device, sized for Instagram, X, Threads, and Reddit. On phones it opens your share sheet so you can save to Photos or post directly. The poster shows your levels and hard limits, so check it before you post publicly.

The jar is the quickest and lightest: 20 broad themes, one tap each. The BDSM checklist goes deeper with specific practices and Yes, Maybe, or No answers. The BDSM test and Kink test give you a profile of your tendencies. Start with whichever feels least intimidating.