Kink Test
40 questions across 8 interest families, from power and restraint to sensory play and relationship structure. It separates what you enjoy imagining from what you would actually want.
Take the kink test →About KinkBDSMTest
A free, anonymous place to find the words for what you want. Two separate self-reflection tests and two reference guides, built for adults, with no account and no paywall.
BDSM Test
52 questions scored against 26 community-derived roles, plus a 12-choice visual mode for a faster, rougher snapshot of the same space.
Take the BDSM test →Types of Kinks
104 entries in ten families — 26 roles pointing to their full guides, and 78 practices with plain-language definitions and risk notes.
Browse kink types →BDSM Roles & Safety
A full guide for each of the 26 roles, and a safety section with an eight-point consent and preparation check you can save as an image.
Read the safety guide →How we build it
Private by construction
Both tests are scored in your browser and answers are never sent to us. We do count anonymous page and funnel events, and a result link you choose to share carries its scores in the URL — so we say "anonymous", not "100% private".
A map, not a verdict
Neither test has been independently validated, and neither is psychometric or clinical. They return a spread across many categories instead of one label, because overlapping interests are the normal case.
A score is never consent
A high percentage is not permission, readiness, skill, or a safety recommendation. Curiosity, fantasy, and intention are different things, which is why the kink test keeps them as separate answers.
Kink is the umbrella and BDSM is one region of it, so the two tests keep separate questions and separate scoring rather than relabelling one engine as the other. The methodology page documents how each is scored and where it stops.