BDSM Archetype · 19 of 26
You’re aroused by being watched and being the center of attention.
Also known as: exhibitionism · performer
Meaning
An Exhibitionist is aroused by being watched or performing for others. Being the center of attention is exciting — whether that means playing in front of a trusted group, sharing in consensual spaces, or simply knowing someone is enjoying the view.
Healthy exhibitionism is always consensual on both sides: viewers want to watch, and the law and venue are respected. The thrill is in shared, wanted attention — never in exposing unwilling people.
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Take the TestConsensual exhibitionism belongs in private or designated adult spaces. Exposing yourself to non-consenting people is illegal and not part of healthy kink.
A voyeur, who enjoys watching as much as the exhibitionist enjoys being watched.
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